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Friday, October 19, 2007

So baby, this is when everything comes together and crash on you.

Sheena! I've missed you all these yearssss.
and who is that babe that has stolen your heart huh? ahha.

You know people, women and men are so different.
This is how...

When a man says 'i don't know', it actually means 'i don't know'.
When a woman says 'i don't know', it actually means 500 things including,
'i don't know how i could ever been attracted to someone who doesn't know
I'm hoping he'll beg me to discuss all other things I'm thinking when i say
' i don't know'.'

In a year, it is calculated that women does more things than men but men has '2 mth'
more free-time than women.
This is why...

HIM: Watch ball games.
HER: Try on dress, try on pants, try on jeans, try on long skirt, try on short skirt, try on medium skirt, try on dressy medium skirt, try on casual short skirt try on medium long skirt, try on tops, try on shoes.

HIM: Read paper.
HER: Call girlfriend, call mom, call store, drive to mall, shop, call ,shop, call, eat, shop, call, shop, eat, shop.

HIM: Change channel.
HER: Change dress, change shoes, change underwear, change jewelry, change hair, change mind, change shoes, change shoes, change purse, change bag, change clips.

There is so much more to continue... it'll be endless you know.
Don't you people agree with me?

This post i realised is mostly about you know, guys and girls.
I shall share about Sheena's girlfriend's point of view on lovers.

There are mainly three types of lovers,
1) Freeloaders
2) Renters
3) Buyers

Freeloaders- They are unwilling to put much effort into the care of his/her partner
in a relationship.
He/she does only what comes naturally.
He/she expects the partner to love them the way they are not tolerating any critics or improve themselves and meet a agreement that benefits both parties in the long term.
Just like living in a house without paying rent or doing anything to improve unless is in the mood to do so.

Renters- They are willing to provide limited care as long as it's in his/her best interest.
The relationship is considered tentative.
The relationship will then be viewed as short-term.
When disagreement occur, it may lead to a violent ~~solution~~ break up.
Just like a person to rent a house, willing to stay as long as the conditions are fair and until he/she finds something better.
This type of lovers are willing to 'pay rent' but not improve surroundings.

Buyers- Willing to demonstrate a sense of care by making permanent changes in his/her own behaviour and lifestyle to make the relationship mutually fulfilling.
They approach problems and disagreements with long-term solutions that works well for both parties.
Relationship often viewed as exclusive and permanent. Just like a person buying a house for life, willing to repair and accommodates needs.

People whom you think are in an unbalance relationship need not worry.
You can be a renter and with a freeloader and try to pull him/her up or you go down.
As we grow and counter different types of lovers, we slowly find ourselves working our way up from a freeloader to renter then a buyer.

My, my post is full of words man.
EH, but still meaningful yeah?

Aunty LOVES kiddo!!!

Hey, i think green is nice.
Don't worry(:

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